What Can I Do with a Guy Who Is Cheap?
When a girl tries to visualize her future husband, the first things that pop up in her mind are intelligence, beauty and kindness. Besides, she hopes to meet someone who would love her and be faithful to her.
However, very often couples separate because the girl finds out that her partner is cheap. Those women who know what it means say that there is nothing worse than dating a guy who is cheap. You cannot change a cheap guy completely and make him more generous, but at least you can try.
A man in love is so happy and inspired that he is ready to give you anything you want. However, sometimes a man doesn’t fall in love at once, and sometimes he doesn’t fall in love at all. This type of men seeks not a woman to love but a woman to feel comfortable with, the one who corresponds to his needs and requirements. There are also the men who date girls just to have someone by their side.
What Are the Last 2 Types of Men?
The last two types of men are usually cheap. You will be lucky to get at least a couple of cheap flowers from him on the first date. They prefer to save up money the whole life or to deposit it for their own selfish purposes. Such a man will always love himself more than you. Possibly he will give you a small golden ring one day, but he will do it not from the bottom of his heart which can make you feel like being deep in debt. You will never feel like a goddess with such a guy.
However, if your man is great in every other way apart from being cheap and you feel like he is the dearest person for you, you may try to change him. Nothing ventured! First, don’t forget that the older a man is, the less chances you have to change him. A young man under 35 can be easily tamed, but a man at a mature age has his own worldviews and habits. So, here are some tips on what can you do with a guy who is cheap:
• Don’t tell him a lot about your income or understate it.
If you discuss marriage, insist on having a common budget. Unobtrusively tell him about the dress that you have seen in a shop saying that you will never afford yourself to buy it. Make a sad and doomed look. Try to provoke his compassion, and your partner will probably buy everything you want just to make you feel good and keep his nerves saved.
• Let him see your admirers, let him be jealous just a bit.
Bring home flowers (you can buy them by yourself) from your admirers, refuse from sex from time to time saying that you have a bad mood or headache. A smart guy will understand everything, he will be trying hard to outdo his rivals by giving you different gifts.
• Take care of your appearance.
Only the best man will choose a good looking woman, so, he will try to be the best.
• Always be grateful for any gifts he gives, even if they are cheap.
Even if you hate what he has given to you, don’t show it. The next time he will give you even better and more expensive gift. Give him your smile, pleasure and lots of kisses. Men give us gifts hoping to get kisses in response. Open your gifts at once, don’t put off. If all the above mentioned methods don’t work, accept the situation and find another guy. But remember, if a guy is cheap, and you try to ask him for gifts, you will doom yourself to failure. A woman should be wise and achieve her purposes being able to avoid conflicts.